• Madison James

6 Must-Read Escorting Tips For Success

At the consultancy, we come across many guys seeking help on how best to break into the world of high-class escorting. They want to know how to attract high-value clients who'll book them for a luxury weekend. Or how to become more confident in social settings. And whether or not they need a six-pack in order to stand a chance against other escorts.

If you're wondering the same thing, I've got 6 must-read tips that will instantly improve your chances of becoming successful as a high-class male escort.

Consultancy Tip #1: Create a brand that women will be attracted to

A brand? Yes, 100%. So lets first define exactly what a brand is so we are all on the same page. Wikipedia provides a pretty good definition:

A brand is a name, term, design, symbol, or other feature that distinguishes an organization or product from its rivals in the eyes of the customer.

Well, working with this definition, how many escorts out there would you say have a well-defined brand that helps distinguish them in the eyes of the customer? The answer is not that many.

This is actually a really good thing for the guys who are willing to think beyond a standard profile on an escort directory surrounded by a million other faces and random dick pics.

For high-class male escorts, our brand is defined by our personality and our attitude towards pleasing the client. This has a massive impact on how we present ourselves, structure our services and target the right type of client.

All these factors contribute towards the overall 'feel' of your brand and any escort interested in earning a good living should be fully aware of this. You need to capitalise on your strengths and use it to communicate with the type of client who will be attracted to this.

Constantly refine your message so you can distinguish yourself from other escorts out there. Don't try to be all things to all people; you're not Amazon. Just stay focused and allow yourself to develop naturally and you'll soon figure out exactly what works best for you.

Consultancy Tip #2: Get your own personal website

In an industry where nearly all clients will look online to search for what they want, I still find it amazing that so many escorts don't have their own website.

I can't think of many professional service industries that are not taking advantage of the benefits of having their own site but when it comes to escorting, that's definitely not the case.

There will, however, be those who purposely choose not to have a website in order to remain discrete and there are countries where escorting is still illegal but in my experience, it's usually because most just haven't really thought about it.

But, again this is a good thing if you do have your own site because it gives you the opportunity to really showcase yourself and what you're all about.

Now the thing to remember is that the male and female escorting markets are very different. Men and women think differently, especially when it comes to weighing up options and making decisions. The point is that the attraction process for men and women is not the same and we need to be aware of this.

Usually, a man can see a hot female escort and instantly want to book her for an evening of passion. Women, on the other hand, will see a hot guy, think 'he's nice', and then they'll want to know how he's going to make them 'FEEL'.

She's going to want to read your bio and your blog if you have one, and she'll use this to help make a decision in what could be a nerve-racking moment for her.

In my experience, if a client is considering two equally hot male escorts, she's going to choose the one who she feels most likely to have a connection with every time.

Having your own website where a woman can imagine what it would be like to spend an evening (or more) with you can make a huge difference. Of course, it's vitally important to have good quality photos and a nice design but it's also important to provide some insight into your personality and who you are as a person.

This is something that I advise all of my clients to consider as it can make such a difference. Even if you still advertise on all the usual escorting directories, having your own site is essential if you want to stand out and make the right impression.

Here are examples of the type of websites we create for our clients.

Consultancy Tip #3: Learn how to market yourself

I won't go into the specifics because I've done that here and here but I will stress the importance of learning how best to market your escorting business.

Do your research online and see who is doing what and how they are doing it. Think about how you can target your particular type of client and where best to find them. Your goal should be to make sure that you are in front of the right client at the right time, which requires a lot of effort.

There are many good resources that you can use from escorting agencies and targeted magazine publications to blogs and forums. Spend some time and read a few marketing books from people in other service industries. By looking at what others are doing in different sectors and seeing how you can apply it to your own will ensure that you stand out from the crowd.

Marketing is about communicating with the right people at the right time, so see who's doing it well and learn from them which leads me on to tip #4.

Consultancy Tip #4: Read more

I say 'read' but that can include audiobooks, video and whatever format works best for you. Reading is by far one of the most effective ways to improve your chances of becoming more successful in the world of escorting. Yet, hardly anyone will tell you this when you ask them for advice about being a successful escort.

There are a number of reasons why you should read but here are some specific reasons why it's important for us as escorts to do so.

1. As an escort, you'll be meeting a wide range of clients from all different backgrounds and professions with interests right across the board. Reading will help you to improve your overall knowledge so you can better relate and handle yourself in different situations. The last thing you want is to find yourself booked for a social event surrounded by intelligent well-read individuals and you're not even able to hold a conversation.

2. To be successful in any industry, you'll want to keep an eye on what's happening and how it may affect you. If you target rich women who love fashion and enjoy an active social life, you'll want to at least know what type of content they're consuming and why they're consuming it. You'll want to have an awareness of social current trends and how this may affect your interactions with your clients. Tools like Feedly and NewsBlur are great ways to quickly scan the latest stories and keep up to date with what's happening in their world.

(You can find a link to my game changing reading list here).

Consultancy Tip #5: Eat well and work out

You don't have to look like you live in the gym but unless you have specifically chosen to offer a 'big and cuddly' type of experience, most clients will expect you to have a good physique and live a relatively healthy lifestyle. Yes, women often require more than looks if they are spending a considerable amount of time in the company of a high-class escort, but it's still important to be appealing to the eye.

Whether you workout in the gym or at home, it's important to have a routine that you enjoy and can manage longterm. I see some guys with amazing physiques and I know this may not be feasible for everyone but do what you can and you'll be surprised by the results. And to all the guys out there who are putting the work in at the gym, I salute you, well done!

Consultancy Tip #6: Develop confident body language

Strong body language is super important because it signifies that you're a confident man who knows how to handle himself.

When you're going in for a hug do you fully commit or are you tentative and unsure of yourself? When walking up to the bar to order a drink do you plant your feet and stand tall as you walk or do you shuffle along with your head down. When you communicate is your movement slow and deliberate or do you rush and fidget nervously.

How you carry yourself speaks volumes about you as a person and women are experts when it comes to interpreting this. Your posture, facial expressions, hand movement and gestures will all have an impact on how you are perceived.

There's a very good reason why James Bond walks and talks the way he does and that's because he's a man in control who oozes confidence. Now you may not have James Bond swagger and a shiny Aston Martin parked outside but you probably have arms, legs and a body attached to a head so make the most of them.

Here's a good video on how to quickly improve your body language and help boost your confidence.

We'll speak again soon.

Your friend,


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