• Madison James

Why Are 76% Of Hot Girls On Instagram Single?

Updated: Mar 3, 2019

How many times have you flicked on to the gram and seen an endless stream of super hot women pouting and gyrating in the most sexually seductive poses you can think of? I know I can definitely answer that question with a firm nod of agreement.

They have perfect contoured features, lovely teeth and nails, long hair, firm breast, toned bodies, long legs and come in every shade of ice cream a man could want.

Well about a week ago, I decided to run a small survey of 250 of the hottest women I could find on Instagram to ask them the following question...

Interestingly enough, approximately 76% of these super hot women responded by telling me that they were single and had been for a while so they couldn't even answer the question.

At first, I didn't think much of it but as more and more of the same responses started to come in, I realised that there was a more interesting trend developing here.

Naturally, I started to probe a little more by asking them if they were single by choice or through a lack of options. Most of them responded by telling me that they felt that there was a lack of quality men out there so they preferred to be single.

...So What The Fuck's Going On?

To be fair, I've heard this many times before on my own travels from clients and women in general but I'd never taken a survey to confirm it. Granted 250 women on Instagram is not exactly an accurate representation of women all over the world but most of these girls have tens of thousands of followers, and as lovely as their personalities may be, most of the guys who follow them (myself included) probably do so because we think they're hot and we like perusing their wall and dribbling over their perfectly filtered pics.

Point is, clearly these women are highly attractive and are likely to have many options but yet they still claim that there is a lack of suitable male talent out there for them.

I believe this is part of the reason why there is an increase in women who are prepared to pay for the company of highly skilled men who know how to please. I think there's quite a bit to unpack here so let's dive straight in.

A lot of men don't know how to please a woman, and a lot of women don't really know what they want.

Yep, when I asked most of these women to describe how they'd want a man to make them feel sexually, most struggled to articulate beyond the usual blurb you see on the average dating profile on Tinder.

I believe the reason for this is because you have the blind leading the blind. Or to put it another way, the overly commercialised and completely artificial packaging and marketing of sex is, on the whole, void of substance and any real human connection beyond what we see in movies and pornos.

I'm not saying porn doesn't have it's place because clearly it does. But what I am saying is that both men and women have been programmed to adopt a certain view of sexuality and neither have really taken the time to learn how to tune in to each other on a deeper level.

Women have been taught for centuries to suppress their desires and be content with making babies. Some religions actually practice covering up certain body parts during sex to 'de-emphasize' their sexual beauty - imagine that! The term 'Madonna-Whore' coined by Sigmund Freud implies that men see women as either saintly Madonnas or debased prostitutes. As if women can't be wholesome and respectable whilst possessing a ferocious sexual appetite and the will to embrace it all at the same time.

The sad truth is that we as a society, men especially are largely to blame because we (men) have made up most of the rules of social etiquette about how women ought to behave if they are to be considered decent and upright. We're essentially shooting ourselves in the foot because women don't fit in boxes. They are not saints with halos or witches with broomsticks, well, actually, I know a few sexy self-proclaimed witches who would beg to differ but I digress. The point that I'm making is that they are just like us, complex emotional creatures who wear many hats and can adapt to many different environments.

Don't get me wrong, I'm not suggesting that these women are single purely because they can't find men to satisfy them sexually, of course not. I think there are a number of reasons why they feel this way and a lot of it probably comes down to a lack of connection and the ability to communicate openly. I suspect that many women in this position would say that the men they meet are not interested in really taking the time to get to know and understand them. Whether this is true or not, I can't say but it's something I've often heard myself and it's a huge part of the reason why our industry exists.

So fellow Gentlemen Callers, this is where we come in! Although most of these women may know that something is missing, they will often struggle to tell you exactly what it is. So it's our responsibility to invest the time to learn how to nurture them and teach these women how to tune in to their bodies and minds and unlock the pleasure that lay hidden - like this.

Of course, this doesn't apply to all women, some are very much in tune with themselves but in my personal experience, and from the results of my little survey there definitely seems to be a general lack of satisfaction when it comes to intimacy. Some tell me they have literally given up because they are tired of the disappointment. I'm sure it probably works both ways but I didn't survey the men so I can't say. Who knows, maybe I'll do that next.

To conclude, the question I set out to answer which was 'What do women really want?' still remains unanswered. I did, however, manage to uncover something that most of you probably wouldn't have guessed. There's a bunch of super hot single women out there who are not being satisfied sexually and maybe these are the women we should be talking to, instead of dribbling over their pics on the gram.

You can follow me on the gram here.

We'll talk again soon.

Your friend,


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