6. Staying safe

Is escorting dangerous?

On the whole, based on my experience and some of the other guys I know in the industry, I'd say no it's not particularly dangerous, especially compared to what many female escorts have to put up with from male clients. But escorting as a man is not without potential risk so let's look at some basic pointers to keep in mind.

  • Always remember to practice safe sex and get checked at least every few months. This can be a dangerously grey area, especially with oral sex so it's important to be well informed so you can set appropriate boundaries and stick to them in the heat of the moment.

  • If you are concerned about a client over the phone but still choose to go through with it consider choosing a public location for first-time bookings.

  • Don't carry too much cash on you.

  • If you feel uncomfortable about the location of a booking, let a friend know where you're going. Apple's creepy 'Find My Phone' function may offer you some peace of mind.

  • Keep an eye open for the angry boyfriend or husband who may take issue with you spending the night with his significant other. Take time to inquire about the setting and the dynamic of any other relationships that may interfere with your time together.

The scope of this page does not permit me to address all the issues I would like to as it could easily fill an entire website in its own right. Fortunately, The UK National Escorts Association has done just that, so spend some time and read up on it if you haven't done so already.

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